sexy
Messy
A context for empowered and playful embracement
of life’s Messy moments.
SEXY Messy was born with the intention to take myself
less seriously and allow life to feel FUN again!
It started with the awareness of how ‘messy’ people and experiences felt to be around, which led to deeper exploration of what the experience of ‘messy’ really meant for me, and a clear intention to uncover my true inner resistance to it.
What I discovered was that ‘Messy’ held a context for a set of behaviors that felt unsafe within my nervous system, particularly because I didn’t have control in that situation. ‘Messy’ represented a childhood wound and a feeling of chaos beyond what felt safe inside me. And so, whenever anyone or anything felt ‘messy’, I would push it away to protect myself and control the amount of discomfort I would experience.
When the realization landed that I was actually being controlled by my own associations and judgments to these behaviors, turned inward, I decided to redefine my context of ‘Messy’ and develop a new, empowered, sexy relationship with it; one where it felt safe to express and experience all of me, and all my facets. In that self-discovery of alchemizing limitation into liberation, a new context based in self-love, acceptance, fun, and freedom emerged...
It has become a movement of personal reconnection, a metamorphosis in freedom, and a full permission slip to become and experience (without self-judgment) the fun, flirtatious, sensual, emotional, and fabulously Messy women we are.
... A movement of finding strength in vulnerability.
In allowing ourselves to be beautifully feminine, messy, and imperfect.
And in softening some inner walls and barriers in order to experience life as fun, playful, and adventurous again.
ENROLLING NOW FOR THE NEXT SESSION OF
SEXY
Messy
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Experience
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Relationships
Experience a rich and deliciously intimate connection with life and love
Self-Indulgence
Magnetism
Develop your dance with decadence, sensuality and self-confidence
Practice the art of playful self-expression and flirt with your deepest desires
Enroll for the Next Session
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with Steph Dinwiddie
Relationship Mentor and
Lifestyle Strategist
STEPH DINWIDDIE, LLC